Kindy Issues!

Setelah sekian lama x melayari blog ini yg ntah hape2…hari ni tetiba rasa nak buat entry. Nak kata topik panas x la jugak tp bg sesetengah org mungkin agar panas la kot. This is my personal opinion, sesapa nak kondem silakan, it won't hurt me insyaAllah. Tiba2 hari ni saja2 surf pasal my children's kindy. As parents of course we're looking for the best place. Bukan kami je ibubapa lain pun. But, what we think is the best might not be the best for other parents. It depends on our personal point of view. Having children going to preschool overseas and locally has made us thinking the best for the kids. Not only in academics but also for the holistic development. Most of the parents have a very high expectation on the children, to be the best among all children. We do have the same dream BUT….one thing that we realize, we shouldn't sacrifice their childhood for the sake of being the so called "BEST PARENTS IN THE WORLD". Having a great kid in academics but 'sick' inside would be a nightmare to any parents. We do not want to feel sorry by straining the kids to be the most genius child. So, we decided (I  actually decided but my husband agreed) to send them to the place that nurture their ability by themselves guided by the teachers. I believe in pedagogy concept since I know my children's ability. Yes, they still have to learn how to read, how to write, how to count but I don't expect them to be the best among their peer. It's good enough if they can think out of the box and learn how to survive. I still expect them to be genius but not the most genius. I don't want them to loose the happiness being children. 
     Having read some of the parents complaining that their children didn't learn much at preschool, I feel sorry for them. Preschool is the place where they learn how to socialize, not to be the best student. Preschool is just the starting point for them. They don't need those kind of pressure in the early age. Being educated parents are very stressful for us. Everyone expect the best from the kids. I believe it would be more stressful to my husband since he was a genius student in school. People expect the kids would be as genius as him. They are! (I'm not saying this because they're my children, it's because they can even think better than me sometimes). 
      Whatever it is, I believe that children's early education starts at home, not at school. I never expect the teachers to teach my kids everything including manners. It should be started at home. Mom and dad are the most responsible people in nurturing the kids to be good and excellent. For some parents, when the kids go to school, they only expect the kids to bring all A's in the report card without having any intention to ask the kids how do they feel everyday. That's what I'm doing now, asking them everyday if they are happy with their life today, if they're not I will ask 'WHY?'. It's not always late to start something good. Let's do it together from now on rather then asking what did you learn today. The kids nowadays are living in a very challenging era. They need us more than their teachers. The teachers are only helping our kids, they're not bringing up the kids. And stop blaming the school and teachers if your kids are not behaving well or not learning well. If they do, it's our mistake. Not others. May we have a strength to bring up a good Muslim and Muslimah, insyaAllah!

Siapa yg berdosa sebenarnya ni?????????????

yang buat salah tu dah tentulah berdosa, yang tukang sebar pun tumpang buat dosa (kalau x betul lg la besar dosa, dah jd fitnah), yg tukang kutuk pun sama gak berdosa (walaupun atas alasan nak menegur, kalau nak tegur tegurlah secara terus-terang pada empunya badan secara baik, jgn main hentam org sbb nak tunjuk bagus sbb kita pun belum tentu lg baiknya)...maka dgn itu, sama2 la berkongsi dosa ye...kita kata org x baik, kita pun 2x5 je....

*mari kita renung2kan dan selamat beramal (pinjam kata2 prof izi)

1st entry of 2012

Hmmm…dah agak lama x bukak blog….hari ni baru berkesempatan terjah blog sendiri…dashummm!!!!!!ari ni mencuba lg buat island pancake atau chalhoddeok. Setelah beberapa kali mencuba tp asik x jd+kena komen gila2 dgn hubby…maka hari ini secara rasminya dah terer buat island pancake tu. 


    Masa mula2 buatnya, mmg x jd langsung, dgn doh melekat2, dgn inti x bleh masuk byk..mmg sgt x smp hati nak mkn…org lain lg la x smp hati kalau yg buatnya pun x smp hati. huhu……org yg paling byk mengutuk. seperti biasa. Kalo kena kritik dgn dia mmg x sah kalau x menangis. Dia siap tanya x tgk ke mcmn makcik jual chalhoddoek tu buat?adui la…mmg tgk tp x la intai betul2 mcmn dia buat.


   Kali kedua buat, cuba gunakan air nak elakkan doh melekat. x jd jugak. kena kutuk lg dan lg….. Dia kata guna la minyak baru x melekat. Mmg smp merajuk dan tinggalkan doh dah inti tu kat dapur dan suruh dia buat sendiri. Dia buat la tp baru dua keping dia dah tinggal tp dia x komplen susah but i know it was. kalo senang mesti dah abiskan doh tu kan. At last, si minah yg kena kutuk ni la jugak yg habiskan doh tu dgn formula dia tp still melekat2 jugak. May be sbb masa tu takut2 nak guna minyak byk2 kot. But it was better than the first trial.


   And today, I've tried it out for the 3rd time. YAHOOOOOO!!!!!!sgt menjadi sbb kali ni mmg dah x segan2 guna minyak lg dan mmg doh tu x melekat langsung dan berjaya letak inti secukupnya. Rupa pun dah cantik sikit dari sblm2 ni. Dia buat hari tu lg teruk tau yg 2 keping tu. Macam kena gelek steamroll….hahahah…..so hari ni dpt 2 pelajaran yg sgt berguna walaupun dah tua2 bangka ni.


   Pertama , jgn jemu mencuba. Walau asik x jd walau asik kena kutuk tp mesti cuba smp jd yg terbaik. Nnt org yg mengutuk tu akan gigit jari. BTW, still very thankful kepada yg mengutuk tu sbb tu nama dia kutukan yg membina…hehe…nasib hubby kan…kalo boyfriend, mmg la……


   Yang kedua, yg ni ditujukan utk hubbyku tersayang. Lain kali nak kutuk tu cermin diri sendiri dulu ye. Jadi boss ni mmg best, bg arahan je tp nak bg arahan tu, yg tukang arah tu pun kena pandai buat jugak. Jangan nnt sendiri jd bahan kutukan balik…..kan…..kan….kan….Tp inilah kata2 komandan kem bina semangat tahun 1996 dulu ttg ciri2 pemimpin yg baik. Mesti mampu melakukan setiap arahan yg diberi kepada anak buah. Disebabkan satu ayat ini la smp sekarang sgt la x berani nak cuba jd ketua atau berusaha jd ketua. Bukan senang ooooo jd ketua. Jd, pada sapa2 berpangkat anak buah tu jgn sesekali mengondem ketua anda sesuka hati kerana ketua anda itu mungkin layak berada di tmptnya kerana kemampuan dia. Lain le kalo boss tu mmg jenis bossy tp habuk pun tarak….haaaa..tu boleh kutuk…..hik…hik….




Sekian entry ari ni…panjang berjela gak…ingat nak wat pendek jek….baiiiiiii!!!!!!!